Comments on: The Gift of a Child’s Uncomfortable Question (Guest Post by Rachel Macy Stafford)

By: Alix

Alix — Sun, 21 Dec 2014 07:55:10 +0000

As a first time mom who doesn’t have a good relationship with her mother, I am concerned about my ability to connect with my daughter on subjects like these when the time comes. I am very conscious of the fact that, although I know what things I don’t want to do, I don’t know what to do instead. Thanks for providing a positive example for me to consider. Your daughter is lucky that you are her mom.

By: Mela

Mela — Mon, 11 Aug 2014 06:26:33 +0000

Beautifully written. These are the terrifying and wonderful moments of being a parent.

By: Sherra Kinder

Sherra Kinder — Thu, 19 Dec 2013 01:54:02 +0000

Beautifully inspiring! It clearly gives vision to what I hope to be as a present parent as my children mature. Thank you!

By: Samantha Shanley

Samantha Shanley — Thu, 19 Dec 2013 00:46:32 +0000

This is such a beautiful anecdote and validation for parents. I’ve been in this spot before with my daughter and I love reading how beautifully you handled this situation. I also love those moments when I feel like I’m right where I need to be with my children. Thank you for sharing!

By: Juanita

Juanita — Wed, 18 Dec 2013 20:20:33 +0000

I love this article and I love this statement, “As I slowly doled out bits of information, I envisioned each one as a piece of armor—each fact making her a little stronger, a bit more aware, a little more prepared to navigate a fast world that could be devastating, alarming, and cruel to young people trying to find their way.” I see my role in this way.

And, I love this statement even more, “My child is going to have to brave the world whether I like it or not. I wouldn’t expect her to battle the ocean without proper skills, knowledge, and equipment – and I won’t expect her to navigate the world without them either.”

Therefore, I vow to give her pieces of protective armor—armor that comes from daily offerings of parental presence, wisdom, and unconditional love. So that if one day she finds herself drowning, she’ll have the strength to call my name.”

Thank you for so eloquently putting this into words. And, I am glad I am not the only one who sees things this way…

By: Sarah

Sarah — Wed, 18 Dec 2013 18:53:08 +0000

Thank you so much! Your words are lovely and you inspire me to be even more present. These babes that are ours grow too quickly, and they are our “main thing”. That thing that we should keep our focus on. Thank you.

By: Hands Free Mama

Hands Free Mama — Wed, 18 Dec 2013 17:55:22 +0000

Thank you for such kind & supportive comments, everyone! I feel so honored to be here sharing my story on Janet’s incredible site. What an uplifting community she has. I appreciate your encouragement today.

By: Harper

Harper — Wed, 18 Dec 2013 16:54:00 +0000

You are an incredible writer and a powerful leader. I love Janet too and have to say I can see why she endorsed you. I for one am grateful to have discovered your blog and life-changing message.

By: Katharine

Katharine — Wed, 18 Dec 2013 15:50:43 +0000

Rachel, you have a way of giving me permission to let my tears flow. Thank you for your gift to the world..

By: Daniel Wagner.

Daniel Wagner. — Wed, 18 Dec 2013 15:36:18 +0000

I love the way you used description to set the mood in this piece. When you mentioned moving the loose hairs, I imagined doing the same with my own daughters.

I am looking forward to having many of these same types of interactions with my own children. We have a long road to go before we get to that level of connection (due to past parenting mistakes), but I am willing to go every mile with them through this journey.

That line into adulthood is coming for each of them and it scares me to death and thrills me just the same.

Great Post!
Daniel Wagner.
ParentofProgress.com