Comments on: How Children Really Learn Empathy https://www.janetlansbury.com/2017/02/how-children-really-learn-empathy/ elevating child care Fri, 26 Aug 2022 22:03:30 +0000 hourly 1 By: Matty Bannond https://www.janetlansbury.com/2017/02/how-children-really-learn-empathy/comment-page-1/#comment-125062 Mon, 03 Apr 2017 13:30:47 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=17298#comment-125062 Thanks for sharing this: My daughter is only 3 months old, but I’m trying to get a headstart on gathering ideas before she needs more entertainment… This, in particular, is sobering for me:

“If we’re the slightest bit anxious or uncomfortable, our child has no choice but to feel that anxiety as well. If we’re annoyed, impatient or even a bit rushed, children have a harder time functioning and will tend to put on the brakes.”

I suppose it’s the sort of thing most people can feel… but you’re right, and I need to come up with a strategy for handling this.

I have always felt like I learned empathy through reading — by being forced to view the world through other people’s perspectives. I wrote about it recently and would love some feedback (I’m new): https://mattybannond.wordpress.com/2017/04/02/what-should-kids-read/

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By: Jen https://www.janetlansbury.com/2017/02/how-children-really-learn-empathy/comment-page-1/#comment-125061 Mon, 20 Feb 2017 16:00:28 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=17298#comment-125061 Thanks!

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By: Tracy https://www.janetlansbury.com/2017/02/how-children-really-learn-empathy/comment-page-1/#comment-125060 Tue, 14 Feb 2017 20:32:44 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=17298#comment-125060 Just, “yes” … child taking reslonsibility for her emotions/behavior…parent (other) offering help. True interdependence — neither dependence or codependence. Yea, yes, yes! God forgive me when i forget this amd disrespect the “law” of relationship. Awesome. Also — thanks for noting this nasty current disconnect between what culture praises (respect others) and what we as adult leaders/teachers DO. Lets focus on ourselves first and our authority second. Walk the walk as “they” say — im preachjn’ to myself.

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By: Kelly S. https://www.janetlansbury.com/2017/02/how-children-really-learn-empathy/comment-page-1/#comment-125059 Sun, 12 Feb 2017 20:53:29 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=17298#comment-125059 This gave me goosebumps. Thank you for continuing to share all the lovely ways we can and do respect each other for the human beings we are!

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