Comments on: Breastfeeding For Comfort (The All-Night Diner) https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/ elevating child care Thu, 30 Jun 2022 06:09:09 +0000 hourly 1 By: Rachael https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-131977 Thu, 30 Jun 2022 06:09:09 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-131977 In reply to Jessica Isles.

Thank you, you literally said everything I was planning on writing! Our milk is also very low in fat meaning our babies need to feed frequently both day and night, and seeing as it is recommended feeding until two year of age, stopping night feeds early (and especially for a baby under one as milk is still their main source of nutrition) can be detrimental to the breastfeeding relationship. Not to mention it contains all those lovely sleep inducing hormones so it really does help baby fall back asleep, not just the comfort of it for them (which is just as important as the nutrition side of things). I don’t think that’s a need we as parents have created in our babies, but one that nature has…

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By: SAMANTHA E FOEHRKOLB https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-130661 Thu, 09 Sep 2021 01:44:04 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-130661 In reply to Chantelle.

Hello, i am in the same position with my 15 month old. Did anything work for you? Please help

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By: Sara https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-130108 Tue, 23 Mar 2021 09:03:24 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-130108 In reply to Aneela 786.

Hello,
Our situation is identical to what you described. How did you fix it?

Thanks a lot.
Sara

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By: Ashley https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-129852 Wed, 06 Jan 2021 05:21:44 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-129852 Hi Janet,

I have a newborn baby (5 days) that will literally only sleep attached to the breast. I have not slept more than an hour or two a day since his birth because he just loses it if I take him off the breast and will not let me put him down. I have to just let him cry with someone else to get a 30 minute nap here and there, to eat, or go to the bathroom. This is obviously not sustainable for me, do you have any suggestions for getting him to sleep in his bassinet/crib without nursing?

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By: Ashley https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-129542 Mon, 21 Sep 2020 01:46:42 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-129542 In reply to Jessica Isles.

Thank you for this.

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By: Laura https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-127931 Tue, 27 Aug 2019 20:14:59 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-127931 In reply to Lauren.

My daughter would was exactly as this writer described: woke up multiple times (6-7) a night and almost always went back to sleep easily with some milk. But at a certain point she couldn’t go back to sleep with the breast (usually after 3 in the morning) and would be exhausted and miserable. We used the Ferber method (gentle checks on her every 1,3,5 min and my husband did the checks so she wouldn’t be frustrated by the lack of breast). I would only go in at the five hour mark to feed her and put her down awake at which point my husband would continue to comfort her. It was a miracle. She slept infinitely better and I was a much more patient/rested mom. Eventually we weaned her off the last feed with the same gentle checks by my husband. They also formed a special bond because of this and our relationship is as strong as ever.

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By: Willow https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-127930 Tue, 27 Aug 2019 16:50:55 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-127930 In reply to Jessica Isles.

Wonderfully said!

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By: Ln https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-127643 Sun, 16 Jun 2019 02:44:19 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-127643 In reply to Randi.

Randi did you ever find a solution to this problem ? This is my current situation ..

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By: Ambre https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-127172 Sat, 02 Mar 2019 19:04:51 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-127172 Hi Janet,
I read you all the way from France and I just love everything you write. Thank you so much for everything you do!
My daughter is in the same situation as Megan’s except that she is 15 months old.
We recently tried to make her sleep in her bed on her room (she was nursed to sleep and we cosleep) and although the first nights were not so bad, she then started to panic when we entered her room at night before the “routine” and she also cried in terror whe she was put to bed. I had to take her back with me so she could calm down. She was every time absolutely uncalmable and even when we took her with us or to the beast she sobbed for a very long time afterwards (up to an hour).
Do you have any advice for our specific situation? She seems very scared of being alone or far from the beast to fall asleep…
Thank you so much again for all your articles!
Ambre

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By: FairyH https://www.janetlansbury.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-for-comfort-the-all-night-diner/comment-page-1/#comment-126143 Sun, 13 May 2018 18:38:40 +0000 http://www.janetlansbury.com/?p=3015#comment-126143 In reply to Chantelle.

This sounds like my son. I’m sorry, I don’t know how old your post is, but did you find a solution that worked?

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